The important point is that the affliction is a complex one and is a trap that is difficult to get out of concious choices or not. I am annoyed by those who out of ignorance or malice choose to spread over-simplifications of complex issues. It's the same with those who tell homosexuals that they have only to accept Jesus to be "cured" from the "choice" they made. Such people hope that repetition and volume will quell naysayers and swing everyone to their point of view. It's the responsibility of those of us who know better to not let them trample over us rough-shod without offering any hindrance. Fortunately, there are brave souls like yourself who not only know better, but are willing to stand by their guns. And for that reason among others I'm proud to have made your acquaintance!