Everyone should have a living will, because in many states, the minute you turn 18, no one has automatic power to make those decisions over you - spouse, parents - no one - unless you give it to them. Doctors can overrule any family member without one. Family members can fight. Hence, the Shiavo case.
There is a wonderful document called The Five Wishes (http://www.agingwithdignity.org/fw2007.html) which is legal in 40 states (including DC). Its a very simple document to fill out, taking you through the process step by step, by asking you a series of questions. By the time you are done, you have completed both a living will and declared your medical proxy. You make sure the appopiate places have it on file - the proxy; lawyer; doctor; hospital, you - and you are done. Simple.
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Date: 2008-02-07 01:28 am (UTC)There is a wonderful document called The Five Wishes (http://www.agingwithdignity.org/fw2007.html) which is legal in 40 states (including DC). Its a very simple document to fill out, taking you through the process step by step, by asking you a series of questions. By the time you are done, you have completed both a living will and declared your medical proxy. You make sure the appopiate places have it on file - the proxy; lawyer; doctor; hospital, you - and you are done. Simple.